How to Survive the First Day of School- A Survival Guide for Parents

Backpack, full of supplies. Check!4. Double-check the dress code. It may be over ninety
First-day outfit, clean and ready to go. Check!degrees, but does the school allow students to wear
Everyone knows where they're going and when to beflip-flops or tank tops? Make sure you know, so that
there. Check (more or less.)really cool first-day outfit doesn't merit a trip to the
Even though you are pretty sure the kids are ready,principal's office.
and they are all in bed, you think ahead to tomorrow.5. Visit new schools in advance. If your child is new to
How will you help make sure they have a good firsta school, see if you can come a couple of days
day, and you do, too?before the school year starts. Arrange to meet the
teachers. Bring your child for a tour. Ask if you can
1. Prepare. Like the list above, make a list for yourbring some of the school supplies early. There's nothing
family. What needs to get done before the first day?like being the new kid, not knowing where the
Don't wait too long to get the school supplies, or youbathroom is, and dropping pencils all over the floor
may find yourself running all over town because somebecause your hands are full.
things are sold out. Lay out clothes the night before,6. Plan for de-briefing. Even if you have a busy day,
just in case a pair of favorite socks is dirty or a shoeset aside time to visit with your children when they get
is misplaced. If you don't prepare, the first day willhome from school or you return from work. Ask how
almost always be chaotic.things went, what was new this year, if they need
2. Plan breakfast. Be sure to think about breakfastanything else for school supplies, what their teachers
ahead of time. If you know your children will be hard toare like, etc. Keep the communication lines open early
wake up that first day of school, don't make a hugein the school year.
breakfast. Have a fast breakfast planned (granola7. Listen with a level head. Remember that children
bars and grapes is fast and portable.) Then, if timehave unique perspectives, so don't overreact when
allows and all goes well, go ahead and serve themyou hear wild stories. You may want to ask the
homemade pancakes with smiley faces. But, don't feelteacher what really happened and get a more
like they're wrecking your perfect breakfast becausebalanced account. Be sure to check in with the
they're sleepy.teachers as soon as you hear any reports of bullying.
3. Sharpen pencils ahead of time. This will save yourIt is best to deal with that problem early. Hopefully you
child a long line in front of the pencil sharpener the firstand your children will have a great first day of school
day. It may seem like a little thing, but it helps your childwhich sets up a positive outlook for the entire year.
be more ready for writing.