Homeschool Programs and the Parent - Young Teen Relationship

Homeschool Programs need to adapt to the changingpersonalities and priorities. As parents, some of us will
parent/ young teen relationship as your young childrenshow a renewed vigor towards more child discipline,
begin to get older. As soon as you seem to feelwhile other parents will lean towards trying to reason
respected as not just a parent but as a real teacher,with the child as if they were already a young adult.
your children begin to discover their own uniquePerhaps a combination of both approaches would pay
identities. As your children transition from middle schoolthe most dividends as your homeschool program
age to that of young teens, often their view ofprogresses.
themselves as individuals and their view of you as theirOne approach to this might be to embrace their new
parent may change. You may find that they stillfound interests and incorporate these into your lesson
respect you as teacher but they may start to growplans. Adapt your teaching to include discussions of
apart from you in the parental role to which you havetheir friends and relationships. After all, you want to
both been accustomed.provide your children with a quality education, and that
Children react differently to this stage of life, with someincludes the life lessons that they would have been
showing a continued view of respect and cooperationlearning with a more standard school environment.
while others may show growing discontent to theYou might want to also reevaluate any homeschool
entire learning environment. We can all remembersoftware that you are currently relying on to make
what it is like to become a young teenager. Friendssure that it fits with the changing needs of your
may become the priority over class and it can provechildren. You may be able to find some additional
frustrating to you as a teacher in dealing with thissoftware suited for their age group to help you hold
change. You will always find yourself better able totheir interest and keep them hungry for more class
handle your child's life changes if you understand thetime.
situation and recognize and embrace the change. YouIf you can adapt your homeschool program to your
cannot stop the progression of time or the fact thatchildren as they age, you both will be better served.
your children are growing up!They will hopefully continue to respect you as a great
Your children are beginning to become moreteacher and parent, while you will continue to have the
independent, so you need to find ways as a teacherbenefit of interaction with them on a daily basis that
and parent to show respect to their changingmost parents do not have the privilege of enjoying!